Showing posts with label I like Myself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label I like Myself. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Books Every Young Child Should Own: Home Library Essentials



Today I'm sharing some tips on home library essentials for young children.

I am admittedly a children's book hoarder. I find it extremely difficult to pass up free and discounted books, books that remind me of my childhood, those that are  packed with facts or useful information, and those with lovable characters like Olivia and Fancy Nancy. I see them and I just HAVE to have them. In some ways I guess this makes me a sort of children's book collector.

But, you don't have to be a children's book hoarder to give your child a really nice at-home library. For those of you looking to start, or even expand, your collection of books at home, I recommend purchasing books from each of the categories below to create a "well-rounded" complete library for your young child. If space or money are tight, I'd suggest one or two books in each of these categories.




Why do I think a "well-rounded" collection is best?

Because while the simple act of reading with your child will give him a jump start on literacy, speaking, and listening skills, reading books from these varied categories assures that your child is being exposed to a diverse set of topics, vocabulary, and printed materials.



Children learn a lot from books - literacy skills as well as other skills, life lessons, facts, and important values.

So, here are types of books to consider for your at-home library.

1. Alphabet books.

These books are great for teaching children letter knowledge, an important emergent literacy skill. Our favorites include Maurice Sendak's Alligators All Around and Bill Martin Jr.'s Chicka Chicka Boom Boom.

To find your favorites, check out 50 Fantastic Alphabet Books over at No Time For Flashcards.

2. Object naming or first word books.

These books are great for kids 3 and under, who are learning new words at such a rapid rate. Don't be fooled into thinking that these books are just for babies and toddlers, though, and that your child will outgrow them. They are a fantastic addition to a home library because once your child can identify the objects, he can move on to trying to decode the words, or learn the object names in another language.

Our favorite book is DK Publishing's My First Word Lift-the-Flap First Board Book.

3. Nursery Rhymes.

Every home library should have at least one collection of nursery rhymes. They are not only fabulous for helping children with important phonemic awareness skills that are essential in learning to read, but there is actually research that suggests a child's knowledge of nursery rhymes is a good predictor of future reading success.

As a child I became familiar with nursery rhymes through the collection called The Real Mother Goose; now, baby bookworm is having fun learning them from this very same book.
 

4. Non-fiction books.

It's a good idea to have a few non-fiction books lying around your house. Non-fiction books are a great way to spark your child's interest in important topics. While it's fun to read stories with animals who talk and do funny things, it's sometimes more fun to learn real facts about animals!

Baby bookworm loves the book Out of Sight which is full of interesting tidbits of information about animals.

5. Poetry books.

Poetry is really an art form. Poetry books make a great addition to an at-home library because they are often full of figures of speech, similes, metaphors, alliteration, rhymes, and varied or unusual vocabulary.

We have a collection of Shel Silverstein's poetry in our home library. This man is a true genius in my eyes.


6. Books on topics that truly interest your child.

For example, if your child is a dinosaur fanatic, then motivate him to read, and read often, by having a few books on this topic on his home bookshelf.

7. Photo books.

Young children love to look at photographs of faces. Having a photo book at your child's fingertips helps him learn about his family, your values, and your culture. It also helps with the formation of autobiographical memories.

8. "Fun" books.

It's also a great idea to allow your child to "play" with books, and some books are more "fun" than others. Lift-the-flap books, musical books, search-and-find books, pop-up books, and sticker books would all fall into the category of "fun". Having books such as these around, gives a child the opportunity to "entertain" himself with a book, much like a toy. In doing so, chances are that he'll gain an interest in books, and consequently reading.

9. Books that teach life lessons.

There are lots of books that teach life lessons. You may want to select a few to own that teach your child lessons that you value.

We own several books with a "sharing" theme such as Mo Willem's Should I Share My Ice Cream? and several that celebrate individuality such as I Like Myself by Karen Beaumont.


10. Bedtime books.

Reading books before bed is a great part of a bedtime routine because 1) you can sneak in some literacy when your child is a little sleepy and more likely to sit still for a story, and 2) it provides emotional bonding and togetherness time. Your child's library should include one or two books that become staple bedtime stories in your home. 

For some suggestions, check out this post on bedtime stories and building a sleep routine.
 
11. Multicultural books or books with diverse characters.

Having a few books on hand with characters from diverse backgrounds helps to give your child an appreciation of others' differences.

One of our all-time favorite books in this category is The Colors of Us by Karen Katz.

 
12. Fairy tales.

Fairy tales generally end with a moral, or lesson, but the real fun of them is that, well, they are just fun and imaginative! Little Red Riding Hood, Golidlocks and the Three Bears, The Little Red Hen... all great characters and stories that children love to listen to over and over again.

Lucy Cousin's has a fabulous collection of fairy tales perfect for young children called Yummy.

13. Wordless books.

A wordless book or two in a home library encourages a child's imagination. Let your child "write" his own story, or simply enjoy the beauty of the illustrations.

For newborns and infants, Tana Hoban has created a number of black-and-white picture-only books. For older children, I like Chalk by Bill Thomson.

14. Counting books.

Learn math by reading math. Counting books like Counting Kisses by Karen Katz are a great addition to any home library. I also highly recommend Anno's Counting Book.

15. Picture books.

Last, but not least, what home library would be complete without a few classic picture books.

I hold several picture books near and dear to my heart such as Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak and Miss Nelson is Missing by Harry Allard.


 
Of course, you can always supplement with books from your local library. And, keep in mind, access to books at home is important!

*A print-rich environment in the home is related to how much children read

*Reading has been associated with number of books in the home; children who

 read more, have more books

*More access to books in the home results in more reading

How does your home library measure up?

 


Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Inner Awesomeness: Books that Promote Self-Esteem and Tolerance

This post is all about promoting your child's "inner awesomeness".  With the help of books, of course.  I had multiple inspirations for finding books that celebrated individuality, uniqueness, and well, inner awesomeness. 

First, my friend has been telling me about this Free to Be...You and Me book that she swears I should remember from elementary school (although I don't).  After checking out the website http://www.freetobefoundion.org/ - it seems totally cool and does bring back 70s and 80s nostalgia, yet still does not spark my memory of the book, DVDs, or songs.  Nevertheless, the message is clear!  And a good one at that. 

Second, let's face it, Lady Gaga is everywhere....showing off her inner monster and pleading for people to express theirs.  She's a modern icon who dares to be different (really really really different) and I admittedly find her expressiveness very inspiring, despite the fact that I don't always "get it". 

Third, I feel like every time I turn around I see this heart wrenching commercial about how being gay "gets better".  OK, I get teary eyed just thinking about it.  The "It Gets Better Project" sends the amazing message of respecting people for who they are.  Now if only we could educate our children about hatred and intolerance at a young age, we wouldn't even have to have such projects.



Fourth, I'm a big fan of Glee, and I love the fact that it sticks up for nerds, and every other minority under the sun (and in a very comedic way I might add).  In fact, I just watched a commercial for spread the word to end the word - a plea to not use the R-word in everyday conversation.



Fifth, every once in awhile when the weather is rainy I take baby bookworm to the pet store up the street to visit the animals.  On our latest outing we encountered a boy who was severely autistic.  He couldn't speak and exhibited the characteristic hand flapping of many autistic children.  Baby bookworm immediately sensed that this boy was different.  She acted afraid, clung to my leg (which is very uncharacteristic of her personality), and pointed at him as if to say, "what's wrong with him?".  Of course she didn't know any better (she is only 17 months), but this outing got me thinking......maybe it IS time to have the "everyone is different and yet special in their own way" talk.

And last but not least my baby bookworm does this thing....this thing where I say "You are soooooo...." and she finishes by exclaiming "cute".  Some may perceive that as teaching arrogance or conceitedness, but I say "Nah".  When you consider how commercials and movie stars and singers are pleading people of this nation to love themselves for who they are, accept those who are different, and not to spread hatred, I say "you ARE cute baby bookworm, and say it all you darn well please!"  Putting all of these aforementioned points together, you might actually think there's some kind of hatred epidemic going on in this country.  Hatred for oneself and hatred for others.

So here's the books that I have used and will use to teach baby bookworm about her own "inner awesomeness" and "specialness" and yes, cuteness.  Because it's perfectly OK to think you are cute or smart or even the best at something....which leads me to my first book.
written and illustrated by Lucy Cousins (also author of the Maisy books)
This is a simple and comedic book that is perfect for toddlers.  The main character is a dog who proclaims himself as “the best” at doing a bunch of different things (such as digging holes).  He believes that he is much better at these things than his friends (a mole, ladybug, goose, and a donkey) but only later realizes that he is not, in fact, the best at these things (mole can actually dig holes much deeper than him!).  His friends help him realize though that he is the best at being a good friend, and having beautiful fluffy ears.  To which dog says “Oh, phew”…. “obviously having beautiful fluffy ears IS the most important thing. So I AM the best.”  You just have to love it.  A dog with an attitude!  Again, is it OK to think you are the best at something?  I think so.  If we all think hard enough I’m sure we can find something about ourselves that we are pretty good at, and we should be proud of that.  Baby bookworm thoroughly enjoys this book too.



I Like Myself
by Karen Beaumont, illustrated by David Catrow

The title says it all.  It's a fun, rhyming book with an adorable curly haired African-American girl as the main character.  The text promotes self-esteem in children.  Baby bookworm and I have only read this book once in Barnes and Noble (another rainy day outing), but I immediately fell in love with this little girl.  It's a fabulous book, with a very good message, and it's an easy read-though with a toddler because the illustrations are so whimsical. For those of you with older kids in elementary school, check out this site for some wonderful activities to go along with this book!  http://teacher.scholastic.com/lessonplans/bookfairs/currconnection/like_myself.htm



My Book about ME
By Me, Myself with the help of Dr. Seuss

This is a book all about your child, written by your child.  You could use it for younger children as well if they had an adult handy to help them fill it out.  On each page is some fun fact to fill in.  For example, there are questions about height, weight, eyeglasses, freckles, where he or she lives, and interesting facts.  I can't wait until baby bookworm can fill out her book - we got hers as a present (and a good one at that). The woman who bought this book for baby bookworm told me that her kids (who are now in middle school) actually filled it out twice!  When we visited with them, both of her girls were very, very proud to show off their completed books to me.....  I think they had definitely learned the lesson that they are unique and special.

My Nose, Your Nose
by Melanie Walsh

A perfect book again for toddlers on the topic on individuality.  The story has a repetitive format and tells of how friends Daisy, Agnes, Arthur, and Kit are all different on the outside (for example, one child has green eyes and another brown), yet they all are the same on the inside.  Baby bookworm and I have checked this book out a few times from the library.  She definitely likes it, and it was even featured recently in one of her toddler story times.

Here's a few other books that fit nicely into this theme.  We haven't read them yet, but we definitely will in the future.

I'm Gonna Like Me by Jamie Lee Curtis and illustrated by Laura Cornell
Free to Be...You and Me by Marlo Thomas
I Like Me by Nancy Carlson
Girls Hold Up This World by Jada Pinkett Smith and illustrated by Donyell Kennedy-McCullough
Hooray for You! A Celebration of You-ness! by Marianne Richmond


I hope your baby bookworm and you embrace your own inner awesomeness!
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